My Dear Daughter, I Will Always Have Your Back

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Written By: Nancy Reynolds

1. When Life is Changing or Challenging

Life is full of changes, sweetheart – big and small. Whether you’re dealing with friendship changes, applying to colleges, or striving to figure out who you are, life can feel overwhelming and unsettling, at times. But know this… you’ll always have me by your side. Through it all, I never want you to feel alone. I’ll be there to offer support, guidance (maybe even when you’re not asking for it), and a steadfast presence in your life. I’ll be your sounding board, your advocate, your voice of reason, and your biggest cheerleader. No matter how unfamiliar or hard a situation might be, I’ll always be with you to face it together.

2. When You Fumble or Fall

You’re going to mess up. You’re going to make poor choices, have regrets, and have failed attempts. Your life won’t always go according to plan. It’s all part of life.

And even though I know you’ll come through those challenges on your own, I want you to know that you’ll always have me to lean on during those hard times reminding you (over and over again) that those stumbles and mistakes will never define you or your future. They are all merely opportunities to learn and grow. When you face what you deem as your worst moments, you’ll never have to go it alone. 

3. Through Every Dream, Goal and Ambition

You know that dream you have of one day working for the FBI? You know that aspiration you have of learning how to bake the best chocolate cookies ever? No matter how big or small your goals, dreams, and ambitions are, I’ll help you get there.

Maybe not by doing things for you or paving your path, but by cheering loudly from the sidelines, reminding you that you CAN, and supporting you when those dreams feel too far out of reach. You see, hon, you have such resilience and the amazing ability to be and do anything you choose in this life. I’ve known it all along. Now I only hope and pray that I can convince you to recognize it as well. 

4. When You Doubt Yourself

Everyone doubts themselves at times. But when you’re young and trying to figure out what life holds for you, it’s easy to question your every decision. But life is about the journey, not the destination. It’s about choosing the path that’s right for you at the right time in your life. And, it’s okay not to know, to pause, to take detours, to turn around. Nothing is set in stone. I’m here to remind you of that.

When you question your worth, struggle with your self-image, or feel unsure about your direction in life or your future, I’ll be here to shout from the mountaintops that you really ARE capable, that you are beautiful inside and out, and that you have an inner strength and uniqueness that I’ve admired for such a long time. When your inner critic is loud, my support and love will be that much louder.

5. When You Need My Unconditional Love, Validation and Acceptance

One of the greatest gifts I can offer you as your mom is my unconditional love, validation, and acceptance. When you mess up, make a poor decision, feel unsure about your next step, or feel misunderstood or judged, I want you to know that you’ll always find a safe haven with me. 

Oh, hon, just come to me… with your problems, worries, fears, apprehensions, and secrets. I promise they won’t be met with rejection, judgment, or criticism. My love for you will never be based on what you did or didn’t do, your achievements or trophies, or your ability to make the “right” choices. You’ll simply be loved because you’re my daughter… and that will never change.

6. Through Your Entire Journey in Life… You Can Count on Me

My promise to you is this, sweetheart… you will never have to question my love for you. I’ll always be just a phone call away. Until I take my last breath on this earth, I’ll forever love you, cherish you, support you, and be the steady in your life. You are my world and I’ll forever stand beside you… I pray you never forget that. 

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